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From the age of 16 Chris had problems at home
and started drinking and taking drugs. He began
his working life as a panel beater a job he held
on to for four and a half years. 'I was pushed
in to it at 17 by my mum and stepdad,’ he says.
'It was a case of "get a trade or get out.
The pay was good but Chris found it completely
unfulfilling. 'My character changed from lively
and determined to aggressive and depressed ' it
was scary. Although I hated it, I was afraid to
give up my job because at the time it seemed to
be my only link with the future,' he recalls.
It didn't help that Chris's employer was prepared
to put up with his habits: he was expected to
be a problem case, so all he was doing was living
up to those expectations.
The turning point was being admitted to hospital
and knowing he'd reached rock bottom. 'I had to
take charge of my life,' he says, 'and the only
way to do that was to leave my job and start again.'
When an aunt told him about The Prince's Trust he decided
to take part in one of their week-long youth activity
programmes in Wales. To his great surprise, he
loved it.
Soon after, Chris was offered the chance to join
Raleigh’s Youth Development Scheme. 'It was brilliant,
the best thing I had done so far,' he says. He
still battled with his old habits but managed,
with support, to prepare and raise money for a
three-month expedition to Belize in the Summer
of '98 - exactly the sort of trip that we’ll be
covering later this year with lifebyte travellers
Oli and Tom.
During the expedition, Chris discovered qualities he
never knew he had, including leadership, confidence
and self-motivation. He’s been able to use those
qualities to build a new career and look forward
to the future he’s chosen.
'It's about finding the courage to make a change,
to challenge yourself and set new, realistic goals,'
he says. 'Try it!'
Find out more about Chris and the Youth Development
Programme at
www.raleigh.org.uk.
– Alison Rolle 20.06.00
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