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Pregnancy is one of the biggest life changes
a woman will ever go through. Not only because
of the immense physical changes it brings to her
body, but because of the social and emotional
impact it will have on her life and other
people's. In 1998, there were 113,78 babies born
to women aged 20-24 years old. Of these, only
45,513 were married.
Louise Smith was 23 when she became pregnant. Her boyfriend, Tom, was 29.
'Tom and I had been together for about a year
when I found out I was pregnant. Having a child
wasn't really something we had ever discussed;
we were more interested in getting a house. I
asked if he wanted me to think about an abortion,
but he said "no, no way". We'd been
in a steady relationship, so I don't think I would
have been able to go through with an abortion.
If I'd been single, I wouldn't have thought twice
about it I don't feel I could bring a child
up on my own.
'We were used to going out most Friday and Saturday
nights. When I found out I was pregnant, I stopped
smoking and even kept out of smoky pubs. Tom gave
up with me. If I did go out, I usually wanted
to be home by 10pm, when everyone else was ready
to party.
'In the first three weeks I felt nauseous and quite ill all day, but it wasn't
enough to make me give up work. It was more like
butterflies I was never ever actually sick.
'I had no weight gain at first and wore my normal
clothes until I was four or five months gone.
Then it started with a little bit of fat I noticed
coming out from under my clothes. It was a bit
like a Michelin tyre around my stomach.

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